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What shades of make-up are right for me?

I have very pale skin, a round chubby face, my eyes are close-set (I've been told), my eyes are that funky color that changes from grey to blue to green depending on my make-up and clothes, and my hair is also color-changing (I have blonde streaks in the front, and the rest is basically brown with natural red highlights, but it can look totally red sometimes, and changes in different lighting; when I wear it up, it looks totally blonde).
What make-up should I wear? I've been told never to wear blue eyeshadow with my eyes.
I need the whole thing: eyeshadow, lipstick, foundation, mascara, blush. (Not that big on eyeliner.)
I prefer the Carmindy-type make-up over the showy styles.
Can you help?

You have to go to the store to try on cosmetics to obtain the proper shade for you. We can only guess.